Creating the Story of Why You are Great

Creating the Story of Why You are Great: What makes people want to hear or read about great people?  How can you make people want to hear or read about you?

Creating the Story

Think about the simple tools of advertising.

Advertisers use images.  They include music.  They create a message to try to appeal to you.

But why does advertising work? When does it become effective?

Strip away the images.  Turn off the music.  Delete the advertising copy.  Start with a blank sheet of paper.

What is the story that advertisers want you to know?

The Meaning of the Message

Of course, advertisers are presenting a product or service.  Advertisers are giving a sales pitch.

But the message is not just about the product or service.  The story is about what the product or service does for you.
Advertisers want you to see how the product or service will surround you with attractive people or take you to beautiful places.  They want to show you how the product or services make you feel safe or prosperous and popular.

Advertisers make their story about you.

Creating the Story of Why You are Great

Your story of why you are great works when you present like a rock star.  Rock stars become stars when they create a great experience for the audience.  The performance is not about the rock stars.  It is about the experience of the audience.

Of course, your story is about your accomplishments.  The story is about your work and your challenges.  It is also about how you turned your work and your challenges into success.

In fact, the audience may care about your success.  They may be happy for you.

However, what makes your story effective is how it makes the audience feel and think themselves.  Furthermore, telling your story correctly creates positive expectations from your audience.  You story will tell people why they should connect with you.  It will tell people why they should hire you or buy your product.

Privacy Protection: Opt-Out of the Sites that Share Your Private Details

Privacy Protection: How does this loss of privacy hurt you?  It can hurt you in several ways.

Privacy Protection: Opt-Out of the Sites that Share Your Private Details

Now there are websites that share your personal information.  Some of these sites sell this information through subscriptions.

How does this loss of privacy hurt you?  It can hurt you in several ways.

Employers seeking information on your background can use the sites to find you.  They can also use these sites to learn more about your family and your financial situation.

Lifehacker staff writer Patrick Allen has a list of steps to help you control what information these sites share and info on how to opt-out of these search engine sites.  He provides the specific links you need to opt-out.

Source: How to Opt Out of the Most Popular People Search Sites

Many of us use social media to help people find us.  Websites like Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter helps us connect with people who are important in our lives.  LinkedIn helps us connect with people who are important to our careers.

On these social media sites, you decide what information you want to put on the site to share.

However, these search engines sites share whatever information they have.  Without opting out, your information is out there for anyone to see.

Profile Cloning: Is Your Identity Being Stolen by a Copycat?

What is Profile Cloning?

Profile cloning is different from profile hacking.  When someone hacks your profile, they gain access to your profile by getting your sign-in information.  This information is usually your password and username or your password and email address.

However, when someone clones your profile, they make a duplicate copy of your profile.  A cloned profile is easy to create.  The person simply downloads you profile picture from your profile.  Then they upload the same picture to the cloned profile.  They use your name.  Therefore, the profile looks the same as your profile.

Why is Cloning a Problem?

When someone hacks your profile, you usually see them posting things that you did not post.

However, when they clone your profile, you may never see what they are posting.  Sometimes, cloners will block you from seeing the cloned profile.  Therefore, you may not know that you profile is cloned.

Then the cloners invite people who trust you to connect with them.  From there, the cloners can phish for information and work various scams.

How do I report a cloned account?

Go to the cloned account.  To the right of the message box you will see three dots.  Click the dots.

In the dropdown menu, select “Report.”  Follow the instructions from there.

But what if the cloner has block me?

If the cloner has blocked you from reaching the cloned profile, have a friend report the clone to Facebook.

How do I know that the cloned profile report reached Facebook?

The person who reported the clone will get this nice card in their Facebook feed: “Thanks for Making Facebook Better.”

They will also get a nice email from Facebook:

“Hi _________,

Thanks for letting us know about someone impersonating your friend on Facebook. Reports like yours are an important part of keeping Facebook a safe and welcoming community.

Since this is happening to your friend, we’re going to close your report and follow up with your friend directly once we’ve reviewed the account.

Thanks again,
The Facebook Team”

The procedures are similar on LinkedIn.

Business and Career Growth: Can a Business or Career Become Static and Survive?

Business and Career Growth: Can a Business or Career Become Static and Survive?

Building a business or a career is a continual process of expanding your goods, services, skills, and network.  The first day that I sat down to start my career as a recruiter, I had no contacts.  I had a telephone, an empty legal pad, and a box of blank 5 x 8 index cards.

After a decade, my contact management system contained tens of thousands of contacts.  I had personally tracked and created files for these people.  Most of them I have reached out to by phone, email, or professional networks.  I still make new connections every day.  Little has changed except that my file system has gone from paper to a computer.

I continually added clients.

Here is a partial list of companies where I had recruiting contracts:

    1. PepsiCo
    2. Pepsi Bottling Group
    3. Frito-Lay
    4. Coca Cola, USA
    5. Coca Cola Foods
    6. Mobil Oil Company
    7. Soft Soap
    8. Pillsbury Green Giant
    9. International Playtex
    10. Quaker Oats
    11. Dannon Corporation
    12. No Nonsense Fashions
    13. Coca-Cola Foods
    14. Del Monte Foods
    15. The Clorox Company
    16. Nestle
    17. Brach & Brock
    18. Catalina Marketing
    19. Health Resource Corporation
    20. Majers Corporation
    21. Welch Foods
    22. Softsoap
    23. E & J Gallo
    24. Sunny Delight
    25. M & M Mars
    26. Tambrands
    27. Nabisco
    28. News America Marketing
    29. El Dorado Marketing
    30. Imagitas
    31. ConAgra Foods
    32. ConAgra Armour Swift-Eckrich
    33. Polaroid Corporation
    34. Dial Corporation
    35. Dep Corporation
    36. United Vintners
    37. 7-Up
    38. Miller Brewing Company
    39. 13-30 Corporation
    40. Hain Celestial Group
    41. Q-Interactive
    42. Label Dollars
    43. Promo Edge
    44. Centiv
    45. The Sunflower Group
    46. PromoWorks
    47. The Wine Spectrum of Coca Cola
    48. Kaiser-Roth
    49. DSD Communications
    50. Black & Decker
    51. ActMedia
    52. Linkewell Health
    53. Bush Brothers Beans
    54. Marketing Technology Solutions
    55. Sunny D
    56. Twenty-Ten Corporation
    57. InStore Broadcasting Network
    58. Insignia Pops
    59. The Beecham Group
    60. GlaxoSmithKline – GSK
    61. Jacobs Suchard
    62. Cody Kramer
    63. SVP Worldwide
    64. Mauna Loa
    65. Garden Burger
    66. EAS
    67. New World Pasta Company
    68. Vacation Connections
    69. Lala USA
    70. Continental Promotion Group
    71. Kayser Roth
    72. Morningstar Farms
    73. Duracell
    74. Kiss Products
    75. Phillips Food Brokerage
    76. Unicous Marketing
    77. Kelley Clarke Food Brokerage
    78. Wizards of the Coast
    79. Oberto Sausage
    80. Fanfare Media
    81. Linkwell Communications
    82. Lindt
    83. Nurserymen’s Exchange
    84. Maybelline
    85. Advantage 360
    86. American Italian Pasta
    87. Warner Lambert
    88. Fuel Rewards/Centego
    89. First Flavor
    90. Potlatch Corporation
    91. Crossmark Food Brokerage
    92. RB (Reckitt Benckiser)
    93. Marketing Force
    94. J&J Snack Foods Corporation
    95. Cartera Commerce Inc.
    96. Alcon Laboratories
    97. Ray-O-Vac
    98. Naterra
    99. ICOM
    100. Slim Fast (Unilever)
    101. Potlatch Corporation
    102. Dean Foods
    103. …and others

    Companies Come and Companies Go.

    In the list are many companies that no longer exist.  In some cases, the brands still exist.  However, these brands are part of another company.  To stay in business, I had to continue to grow new business.

    Companies come and go.  People come and go.  Processes change.  Opportunities are here today and gone tomorrow.  People who build new relationships and expand their relationships will build security.

    Change is constant in business and careers.  The process of building a business and building a career never ends.

Branding: When the Lowest Price Is Not Enough

Branding: When the Lowest Price Is Not Enough

I worked as a recruiter in the consumer-packaged goods industry. Every day I talked with job seekers and hiring managers who sold consumer products through retail stores.

When I reviewed qualifications, I was assessing a job seeker’s ability to make brands successful. Themes recurred in the profiles I recruited. The hiring companies were seeking people who could design and conduct successful brand campaigns.

Interviewing

When you are interviewing, you might find these ideas helpful to show companies how you can make their brands successful.

Targeted

Walmart, Costco, and Walgreens all sell pharmaceuticals. Walmart targets customers who want to buy sustainable quantities at the best price. Costco, on the other hand, targets customers who can afford to buy larger quantities to get the better price. Walgreens (and CVS) have stores in every neighborhood. They charge higher retail prices for the convenience of shopping locally.

Simple Calls to Action

Calls to action are statements that bring the customer to act. They may be explicit like the statement “Save now.”

Or the call to action may be implicit: “Offer is good while supplies last.”  The statement implies that you must buy now to reap the benefits.

Consistent

Once you know your audience, you hit them with the same message over and over. Advertising is like the Colorado river. Even when navigating through the rapids, you are not likely to see the river eroding the walls and floor of the Grand Canyon. Over time, however, the canyon becomes deeper, wider, and changes course.

Logos and Icons

The use of logos has taken on even more significance as social media has created icons and identity for their brands. Just the following letters alone are enough for people to identify major social media sites:  in, f, G+, P, and t. In order, those iconic letters represent LinkedIn, Facebook, Google+, Pinterest, and Tumblr. Twitter, of course, is the iconic birdie.

Slogans

Slogans are memorable. Here are examples.

“Expect More. Pay Less” (Target Stores) ™

“Ace is the place with the helpful hardware man.” (Ace Hardware™)

“The Most Interesting Man in the World” (XX Dos Equis™)

“Save Money. Live Better.” (Walmart™)

“Glasses in less than an hour.” (LensCrafters™)

My favorite slogan is the iPod launch slogan:  “A thousand tunes in your pocket.” (Apple™)

 

Politics: A Majority Are Sick of It.

Thank you for not giving us your political opinion. ~ www.jaywren.com

The news of politics wears on people. Most Americans are tired of hearing about politics.

Looking for headlines to cover, the media hover over current events for political sound bites. Add to those soundbites the in-depth coverage of speeches and now conventions. Furthermore, candidates are starting to hit the media with advertising campaigns.

Pause Before Posting

Sharing online stories is as easy as clicking a share button. However, if the story is about politics, pause before posting. Your friends and connections are probably tired of hearing about it.

They get more than a daily dose from major media.

If you feel the need to wake people up to your cause, they are probably already tired of hearing about that cause. Apathy in politics is different from political exhaustion. People aren’t indifferent. The media have burned them out on politics.

What is Your Goal?

It is always good to remember to ask ourselves why we are on social media. Is it our goal to make new friends and expand our business network?  Is it our goal to reconnect with friends and business connections?

Or is our goal really to promote a political agenda?

Knowing the goal is important.

When politicians are on the campaign stump, the best politicians say things that draw headlines. The media people pick these things from political speeches and write their headlines. Conservative, liberal, and progressive media use headlines to draw subscribers. Promoting your career with politics is a good idea for people with political careers. It is less of a good idea for people who are not in politics.

Image: Jay Wren

LinkedIn: How to Unfollow a Connection

LinkedIn: How to Unfollow a Connection

It is helpful to know how to unfollow a LinkedIn connection.

Do some of your connections annoy you with the things that they post on LinkedIn?  Does it annoy you that some of you connections post political opinions or that other connections post puzzles or brain teasers.  Do you have connections who spam the news feed with post after another?

Even worse, do you find that people who aren’t your connections are fulling your news feed with their post?

LinkedIn Choices: Accept, Change, or Unfollow

There are at least three things that you can do to end your frustration with the annoying things that some of your connections are doing on LinkedIn.

One thing you can do is to break the connection.  When you break your connection, you lose access to the connections in this person’s network.  You lose their persons’ first-degree connections and on a larger scale, you lose the person’s second-degree connections.  These people no longer show up in your news feed.  They no longer show up in the list of automatic invitation connections among the people “you might know.”

A second thing that you can do is to criticize your connection for annoying you.  In this case, you risk damaging a relationship that might be valuable to you later on.

A third option is to unfollow a connection.  The person will still be your connection. The process is simple.  Go to the person’s profile, find the send button, click the down arrow, and click view recent activity.  You will land on the person’s updates.  This is a very cool page.  You can not only follow and unfollow people. You can see how many total contacts they actually have!

LinkedIn Unfollow

Remember your options. Use those options to expand your network and build your relationships.

Images: Jay Wren

5 Ways to Destroy Yourself Online

There are many ways to destroy yourself online.  Here are 5 things I try to avoid.

Trolling and Trolls

I love Internet forums.  I read forums for fun and for information.

But forums have a sneaky way of getting readers into a blind date with a troll.  A few months ago, I made the mistake of giving my opinion as opposed to the facts on a forum, only to find that a troll challenged me to explain myself.  Answering the person would only have made the conversation grow.  How wonderful, I could have a relationship with a troll!  I deleted the comment.

On a gut level, the idea of trolling has some appeal.  You know, you create a sneaky identity just to sound off with your opinions and set people right.  But this tactic has a price, especially when people lift your covers.  I read an article a few months ago about a politician who spent $35,000 to find the identity of a troll.  And he found him!

Occasionally, I read an offensive post, something intended to tick people off, at least tick some people.  These posts have a magic for creating rants and counter rants.  People who know how to troll take as much or more pleasure in making people angry as they do in attracting people who agree with them.  Reacting to trolling just raises the post in forum streams.  I just let it go, let it go, let it go.  ♫ ♫ ♫

Internet Policing

Wouldn’t it be great if you could make everyone on the Internet either agree with you or shut the heck up?  You betcha.  I’ve tried.  But they don’t shut up.  They just come back and post more stuff to tick you off.  There is no policing Internet forums.  I can either embrace them or avoid them.

Politics

The web is rife with political stuff during political seasons.  Most people have a bias more than a brain when it comes to politics.  Politicians do not give people information.  They give people sound bites, clickbait and headlines to chum the waters for political fish.  People can rise to the bait suck it up.  But political chum is less cool in business and social forums. When I see people posting chum in my Internet feeds, I unfollow them.  See ya, not.  Don’t want your tweets. Don’t want your face on Facebook.  Don’t want your political wisdom on LinkedIn. No, no, no, not now, not ever.

I don’t unfriend them or disconnect from them all the time.  I just unfollow Friends Who Post Politics on the Internet.

Stupid Stuff

Wow, the Internet is immediate and permanent.  And that’s a long time!  I see screen captures of deleted Tweets, Facebook posts, and Instagram on the Internet all the time.

I have posted and deleted material I later thought might possibly be sketchy.  When my gut tells me that I am posting something sketchy, I side with my gut. There is absolutely nothing I can post in a forum that is worth my reputation.

How to Get Contacts on the Inside

Knowing how to get inside contacts is important.

Do you feel there is a wall between you and the jobs you are seeking?  You go to apply for a job on a company website and find that you have to complete an application.  When you have completed the application and submitted your resume, you are not even sure that a human will ever see it.  Are you sending your resume to countless companies?  Are you getting no interviews and do not know why?

It is important to know how to get an inside contact, because people inside a company can get you a direct connection with the people who are hiring.

Suggestions for Finding inside Contacts

Identify a company where you want to work.  Go through your contacts to see the people you may know at the company.

Review your contacts for people who might know someone at the hiring company.  Begin to show an interest in those people.

As you are developing your files at this one company, ask the people helping you find contacts at that company whether they have contacts at other companies where you might find work.

Continue to search for places where you want to work.  Don’t just focus on one company.  As you develop your list of potential hiring companies, you will be able to make greater use of your contacts.

Building New Relationships

Offer to help people.  Show an interest what they are doing.  People are more willing try to help you when you have helped them.  As you build new relationships, those people can introduce you to even more people.  By meeting with people who work in jobs that interest you, you may also meet other people who share their interest and, therefore, meet people who share your interest.  Networking is more than getting email addresses and phone numbers.  It is making friends and developing relationships.

To make a friend, become a friend.  Reach out your hand and introduce yourself to people.  Smile and ask them small icebreaker questions.  For example, it you are at a conference, ask the person how they are enjoying the conference.  Ask them whether they find that this conference help them meet new contacts and strengthens their relationships with established connections.

If you want to work in a particular industry, go to where people in that interest work and meet.  Do they attend conventions?  Do they go to trade shows?  Do they support a specific charity?  Do they do volunteer work where you can get involved

Don’t forget LinkedIn, but don’t rely on it as your main source of inside contacts.

LinkedIn is not like Facebook.  On Facebook, people connect with family and friends.  On LinkedIn, people connect with a few friends, but LinkedIn is a business network where the relationships you have are less likely to become an inside contact.  Getting connections through LinkedIn can help you expand your contact list quickly.  Therefore, don’t forget LinkedIn, but understand its limitations.

Event Networking for Introverts

Event networking for introverts is never easy.  For that matter, even some extroverts feel awkward when networking face to face.  There is always that little feeling of what you don’t know.

If networking events are difficult for you, there are things that you can do to make them easier.

I prepare for networking events.  When I have not prepared, I have found myself walking around without accomplishing anything and uncertain about how to get started.  Here are some things I do before event networking.

Prepare Materials When Event Networking

I take my smartphone.  I keep my appointments on my smartphone.

However, I like to work with a pen and paper.  I take a leather-bound portfolio with a legal pad.  I take notes in pen and ink.

I carry a one inch-thick stack of business cards.  I keep my cards in one pocket.  I place the cards of the people I meet in a second pocket. When I leave an event with many new contacts, I want to put them into my expanding database of contacts.  The cards make building this database possible.  For people who do not have cards, I make notes on their contact information on my legal pad.

If there is a brochure for the event, I keep a copy of the brochure in the jacket of my portfolio.  This brochure helps me find my way around and contact people as the event moves along.

List Contacts in Advance of Event Networking

I make a list of people I specifically want to meet.  By making a list of people I want to meet, I can reduce the stress on me through preparation for seeing the people.

I can also do a better job of seeing the people I need to see.

If there is a list of companies or people in attendance, I get a copy of the list before the event.
If I am at a convention, companies have booths.  I email or call people to let them know I will come by their booth.

I do not schedule many appointments during the course of a networking event.   Too many things can come up to carry people away and cause people to miss appointments.  For the appointments I do schedule, I give people my phone number to call me when their schedule has changed during an event.

Things to Say When Event Networking

Remember some basics.

  1. If speaking with new people makes you uncomfortable, prepare things to say and questions to ask.
  2. Show an interest in the other person’s discussion
  3. Ask the person questions about points that interest you.
  4. Congratulate the person upon successes.
  5. Listen with empathy.  Connect with what the person is saying from their point of view.  Ask questions about how they reached conclusions or solved problems.

The Positive Side of Being an Introvert When Event Networking

Anxiety is a signal that tells us to expect things.  If we use that signal as a message to prepare for our meetings, we can do a better job of getting ready and our meetings will go better.

Remember that everyone gets nervous sometimes.  It is part of being human.  Having a little anxiety is okay.  It is even a good thing when I use the feelings to plan and prepare for successful event marketing.

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