Paint Your Day with Brilliance Through Word Choices

I have a choice today to paint my day and the day of the people I meet by choosing words that go down or words that go up.

I have a stellar idea. I am going to take the path of great teachers who only say things they want students to remember. I am only going to use words that I want people to associate with me.

How am I doing? If I were any better I would be in the circus. How am I doing? Tickled to be able to live in a safe place with great people and work with people who are intelligent, patient, and kind.

How as my weekend? It was wonderful. I got so many personal things accomplished that I feel like a new person!

That shirt looks nice on you.

You always know the right thing to say.

I keep great hearing things about the work you are doing.

Thank you. You did a great job.

We are so fortunate to be able to call people who can help us with our decisions.

So what am I doing with these words? I am painting my day and the day of the people around me with mood-lifting words.

Whether I am writing resumes, business letters, emails to friends, speaking with other people, or just talking to yourself, I can change the mood from dreary to bright, and I have much better vision when the direction I am going is bright.

“The World’s Most Noble Headhunter”

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Great Grammar is So Easy to Practice and So Rewarding for Those Who Do

Great Grammar is So Easy to Practice and So Rewarding for Those Who Do.

Little grammatical mistakes are so easy to make and can be so costly to the speaker or writer when those mistakes come to represent a person’s professional profile.

The purpose of this article is to highlight words that mask speaking and writing errors.

When speaking, there is no technology to aid us. We either choose the correct words, or we do not.

With today’s technology, writers have help in proofreading documents before publishing or emailing them. On the other side, writers have the disadvantage of having their grammatical errors highlighted in the document when the reader opens it. Using technology to proofread and improve the quality of your writing is so easy to do. Failing to use that technology can make you look sloppy, uneducated, unintelligent, and your document may disappear into the reader’s deleted folder.

Easy Steps to Great Grammar

All skills take initial development to acquire and regular practice to maintain. To acquire and strengthen your grammar is easy with the free online resources like this very website and others that provide ideas on becoming more successful in business or any other public setting today.

Developing great grammar does not have to be complicated. I have avoided using grammatical terminology in this article. I want the focus to be on words that mask errors.

Using the same process of simply becoming familiar with words that mask mistakes can help you keep the development of your grammatical skills simple. Unless you plan to teach grammar or find intrinsic value in developing a broader vocabulary in grammar, you might just ignore the grammatical terms in any article or textbook and focus on the examples that you find in the resources you are using.

Speaking with Grammatical Accuracy

To use accurate grammar in speaking, there is just one area of development: word selection. The speaker simply needs to know which words are correct to express an idea.

Again, the most effective and fastest way to develop accurate word selection is to highlight mistakes that occur most often. I am going to label this frequently made grammatical error “the ESPN Too©.”  Half the American sports commentators on live broadcasts make this simple grammatical error during on a regular basis. Just putting them in the situation of having to choose the correct use of the words “between” or “among” as well as the words that follow those two words, and the sports commentators will make the incorrect choices. Frankly, these sportscasters are not alone.

The words “between” and “among” are doubly confusing in terms of which words follow them and which of the two words to use in which situation.

The word “between” indicates that the matter is between two people. The word “among” indicates that the matter is among three or more people.

Try to remember that the words that follow the word “between” are the words “him, her, and me.”

The words that follow the word “among” are the words “him,” “her,” “me,” “themselves,” and “ourselves”

As awkward and as subliterate as the following statements may appear, these statements are grammatically correct:

  1. “This matter is between him and her.”
  2. “This matter is among her, him, and me.”
  3. “The team members want to keep the secret among themselves.”

Comparisons: Words with two Syllables

To create comparisons with one-syllable and two-syllable-words, add “er” or “est to the end of the word. Here are examples.

  1. This car is fast. This second car is faster. The third car is fastest.
  2. This flower is pretty. These flowers are prettier. Of all the flowers, these flowers are the prettiest.

Comparisons Words with Three or More Syllables

To create comparisons with words with three or more syllables, use the words “more” and “most” in front of the word used for comparison. This English professor is intelligent. The math professor is more intelligent. The music professor is the most intelligent of the three professors.

Writing with Grammatical Accuracy

Developing writing skills that contain great grammar is different from developing speaking skills that contain great grammar. However, writing complicates word selection with the issue of similar sounding words: Affect / Effect, Break / Brake, Capital / Capitol, Compliment / Complement, Desert / Dessert, Guest / Guessed
Heard / Herd, Illusion / Allusion, New / Knew, Principle / Principal, Rain / Reign, and so forth.

Rather than trying to learn every set of similar sounding words you can find in English (English language is redundant.), you might just become aware of your own tendencies in word selection. For reason, I developed the habit of adding a syllable to the spelling the of word “athlete.” I intuitively tend to type the word “ath-e-lete.” So, I try to watch for that type of error in my writing.

Avoiding Apostrophes

Writers enjoy using an informal style and will use apostrophes to replace letters as part of that style of writing. However, this practice can mask writing mistakes.
One of the most common instances of apostrophes creating confusion and masking writing errors comes when a writer is trying to choose whether to use “its” or “it’s.”

Forget about learning the grammar as to which words to choose. Just try to stay away from using apostrophes to replace letters. Business writing is not informal anyway.

So, try this method. Just type, “It is.” If the two words “it is” do not express what you are trying to express, then the word “its” is the correct word to use between the choices of “its” or “it’s”. Does that make sense?

Having to focus on whether you should type “there, their, or they’re,” you can reduce the risk of errors creeping into your writing with the statement, “They are.”

Your quick wit indicates that you are smart.

Learning as a Lifestyle

I continue to read articles on basic grammar and watch for my own mental blocks that can mask errors in grammar. Speaking and writing correctly is critical to the success of anyone’s career. Practicing great grammar is so easy to do and so rewarding.

Simple, Effective Business-Writing and Public-Speaking Principles

ANGLO-SAXON WORDS 
The basic principles for business writing and public speaking is to get accurate information to reading or listening audience.   The best communicators select words that will ensure that their message is easy to understand. For business and public speaking, the power of their material is in the subject matter.

SENTENCE STRUCTURE
Simple sentences are the easiest to understand.  These types of sentences express the action of one person, animal, or object creating one action or more actions.  The cat meowed. The dog barked and howled.

Compound sentences have two subjects performing two separate actions.  The cat meowed, and the dog barked.

In a complex sentence, the communicator is using a phrase to describe the action in the sentence.  Complex sentences help the writers and speakers express time and location.  After sundown, the cat meowed.  When the cat meowed, the dog barked.

Adjective clauses enable a writer to define or describe the subject of the sentence.  The dog that barked is a small.

The more complicated the writer or speaker makes a sentence, the more risk the person  makes brings to making the information to understand.  Example:  As Mary approached Jim on the left and the lion eased into view just over the horizon on the right and Jim’s arms began to tire from the heavy load of the four water pails, Jim breathed deeply, trembling and straining to find his focus and maintain faith that any action at all, however quick on his part, to reach the gun was worthwhile, and he called to Mary to leave immediately, so that he could deal independently  and with total focus on frightening the lion through shouting or move to grab the gun and in doing so move away from the lion and yet reduce the likelihood that he could intimidate the lion and frighten the lion away.

Simple, factual adjectives can be helpful in writing.  The red books are encyclopedias.
However, there are many adjectives that just waste space in business writing.  In business writing and speaking, select adjectives for the following purposes.

  1. Effectiveness
  2. Simplicity
  3. Accuracy
  4. Honesty
  5. Relevance
  6. Conciseness
  7. Professionalism
  8. Courteous tone
  9. Completeness
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Creating Connections on Membership Sites: a Professional Network or a Database?

Creating connections on membership sites helps brand and market your career.

THE TIME TO SET UP AN ONLINE NETWORK IS BEFORE YOU NEED IT.
As your career progresses, one of the choices you may need to make is how to connect effectively with people online.

Many people take an intuitive approach relative to where they are in their career.

However, waiting until you need a network to build it can leave you stranded when you most need support.  From a career perspective, the time to develop your network is to spend a few minutes on a consistent basis reviewing and editing your professional profile and giving consideration to people you may want to add to your connections.

Viewing how you will use your network over the next five years can help you understand what type of network you want to develop.

THE PROFESSIONAL NETWORK
Do you want to limit your connections to people who can directly help your career?  Then you want to create a professional network.  You will want to be selective to target the people who can connect you with other people who can help you become more successful.

Your options may include questions like these questions:

Does the person share your values?
Does the person have connections with people you want for your connections?
Will the association of this person’s career with your career help you?
Is the person someone who can put you in contact with valuable and influential people?
Is the person someone who can mentor or advise you?

At the same time, you want the people you are selecting to be people who will see the value in connecting with you. Make each invitation individual and personally written for each connection. Express in the invitation that the person has experiences and successes that are the same as other people in your network.

THE PROFESSIONAL DATABASE
Do you want to be able to have immediate access to as many people as possible and yet control who can see your contacts? If so, then you are developing a professional database.   You create a profile that promotes the idea that you are willing to accept invitations from anyone.  You want to be an open networker and join groups that promote open networking.

An issue for developing an online database is controlling how much other members of the membership site can know about the people you have in your online list of contacts.  As an open networker, you can still protect your database to a fairly large degree.  Just adjust the privacy settings so that you alone can see who is in your network.  Even with tens of thousands of contacts, you can block people from seeing your contacts.

One of the main differences between a professional network and an online database is a difference in property value. Professional networks have real commercial value to the person who has built the network. Said another way, you can sell databases.

SO WHAT’S THE POINT?
The point is that your view and uses of your network may change with the evolution of your career, yet as a professional you should include developing your online profile as part of your total career management system.

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Be Extraordinary: 3 Ways to Turn Your Day into a Celebration!

TALK HAPPY

I worked with a great guy who was always fun to see. He is the only man who ever called me “Sunshine.”

This name was not even a man crush kind of thing.  My buddy just greeted all people with a smile and some enthusiastic greeting or another.  For me the greeting was “Good morning, Sunshine.”

My buddy always had fantastic days.  Along the way, he enjoyed tremendous success over equally and even more capable people.  The reason for his success to me was very simple.  Given the option of the people available to join a team, especially a team in a stressful, challenging, long-term project, managers would obviously choose the person with all the skills to do a great job.

In a very simple way, every business day can go better by my greeting people with the most positive yet appropriate greeting possible.

MAKE GRATITUDE LISTS

Happiness is an inside job.

I have seen people develop lifetime habits for the sole purpose of staying mentally healthy.  I know of one mental health professional who, for his own sake, writes down one thing a day for which he is grateful.

At the end of the week, he compiles a list from the seven words.  Once a month, he picks the top five things from his gratitude list and puts these words on another gratitude list for the month.

Once a year, he goes over what is now a list of 60 things for which he is grateful and picks the top five things for which he is happy every year.  He has gone through this process for years.

He treats the human mind the way a physical therapist works with a human limb.

My glass is always full.  It always has been.  I am the one who is responsible for filling my own glass.  I have held that responsibility since I was three years old.  If I do not like the level in my glass, I fill it.

Mentally it is my job to keep my glass full as well.

However, what I am talking about is a celebration.

When I behave like I am happy, I become happy.  Sunshine, exercise, and a healthy diet make me smile. Clapping my hands and dancing energize me.  I do not have to wait until I am at some special event to have a party.  I can have one without disturbing other people nearly any time I want.

EXERCISE WITH JOY

I used to see the happy runner.  He was an interesting, colorful guy.  I am not sure how many hours he ran a day.  I saw him more than once on a street where I did not regularly go, so I conclude he must have been out there running a great deal.

He wore bright shorts, tank tops, shoes, and waved at the motorist.   He was always smiling and having his own party as he ran down the side walk of a local major thoroughfare.

He was happy.  He was like my friend who used to call me “Sunshine.”  He created his own celebration.  He was like so many people, you included, in that he was extraordinary at creating his own celebration.

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The Most Important Interview Question You Will Ever Be Asked

The Most Important Interview Question You Will Ever Be Asked

I have read that the most important interview question you will ever be asked is what is your greatest accomplishment.

To me that is akin to someone’s idea of what is Mozart’s greatest work and Babe Ruth’s greatest game. Each person will have his or own idea of greatest anything. The most important part of interview preparation is to check your accomplishments along with a great deal of other material before going into an interview.

Then take a deep breath and be flexible. Interviews are like major league baseball. Who knows what pitch is coming next? Hopefully it is not a wild fast ball going straight to the ear hole in your helmet. Often the pitcher does not know where the next pitch is going until it gets there. So prepare. Take a deep breath. Stay loose. Trust yourself.

Be extraordinary: you will do a great job!

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